The venue was chosen for a family wedding. Most people stayed the night before and the night of wedding. Right from check-inn, through bar service, and frankly anything else related to guest services, the was an air of self importance in the staff, assertive is one thing, rudeness is quite another, I would say very much borderline and perhaps some misguided feeling of superiority is present.
Every single staff member seems to be trained to blurt out an instruction and walk away, leaving no ability to challenge or seek explanation. I would certainly never visit this hotel as a leisure guest.